April 26, 2011

I Am A Wedding Schizophrenic.

Hey guys,

I apologize for the lack of posts lately, but I found myself slightly uninspired (soon to be fixed by the Royal Wedding coming up soon...)

So I decided to organize all that wedding inspiration I have been saving up the past year and place it into neatly organized folders, with the potential to go onto Google Docs so I would have access to my stuff from anywhere!

Once I was done, I wondered where my focus for wedding planning was going, so I opened up each folder and looked at the elements I had...

And I found out something slightly troubling...

I'm a wedding schizophrenic. XD

With each category of wedding planning, the dress, the flowers, the decor, the invitations, I had at least three or more major themes.

Obviously, I'm already confused with the winter vs. summer wedding, and that doesn't help matters.

With winter, I'm showing a more nature-oriented and rustic look:

A wonderfully rustic winter pinecone wedding bouquet.A hexagon sugared fruit wedding cake.Hanging leaves wall decor.Cinnamon candles.A textured a-line wedding dress with flowers.

But the summer one is still having an identity crisis...

I don't know if I want more modern, elegant and sleek look:

An elegant and simple white tulip wedding bouquet.A modern wedding cake with chocolate roses.Modern flower chair decor.Modern and elegant luminaries and table numbers.A stunning spring or summer wedding dress with flower appliques.

Or a detailed, lush, romantic, girly affair:

A lush purple wedding bouquet.A traditional wedding cake with square tiers and interesting texture.A stunning crystal wedding ceremony backdrop.Small affordable chandelier.Absolutely stunning beaded ballgown wedding dress.

I seem to approve of both ends of the spectrum! XD

I'm sure this wedding confusion is not going to end for a while, not until I start actually plotting out the nitty gritty details, and a focus starts to appear from my now blurry daydreams...

But until then, I guess being prepared for anything is a good thing, right?!

...right?

XD

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At one point she thought I killed my dad and grandfather, and she attacked me for it. Now she's supposedly on medicine that makes her "better," but she still won't let me stand next to my dad. She will physically push me out of the way. She also says mean things to me whenever I'm around her. I don't want to hurt my dad, but I really don't want her to cause drama at a wedding that will probably already dramatic with the normal family issues, aside from mental illness.
it's YOUR wedding and you should do what YOU want. if people make you feel bad for your choices then they are just being immature. maybe you can invite her to a few of the pre-wedding events and if she seems normal on the new medication, extend the invite to the wedding.

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What is that feeling when you're driving away from people and they recede on the plain till you see their specks dispersing? - it's the too-huge world vaulting us, and it's good-bye. But we lean forward to the next crazy venture beneath the skies.
First off, thank you everyone! I feel the support and see that I am not alone, which obviously I wouldn't be with all the people getting married, but thank you all the same.
I comfort myself that he is high functioning, and those of you that worried over the fact that he does not take medication, I agree... It would be best if he was helped, which is why I spend much time with him, because more contact seems to help.
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o Determine potential dates and times for your wedding.
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o Order your wedding dress and attendants’ attire.
o Book your photographer and videographer.
o Reserve a caterer.
o Arrange for decor, chair covers and linens.
o Book your live entertainment or DJ.
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Richard A. · 395 weeks ago

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Wow! I do think this will come up into a beautiful wedding dress. Can't wait! :

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